Alec Baldwin is a hero
April 20th, 2007
Alec Baldwin calls his daughter a thoughtless little pig
By now you’ve probably heard of this message Alec Baldwin left for his daughter, Ireland, last week. Everyone’s in such an uproar because his daughter is only 11-years-old. But to be fair to Alex, she’s almost 12. And with how fast kids are growing up nowadays, 12 is like the new 14. If you can’t take a little verbal abuse at 14, you really shouldn’t even be using a phone.
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Uh Oh…you know what day it is? It’s Friday the 20th…looks like someones ass is gonna get straightened out today. You know it was kim who released this to the press…man what an ugly divorce.
There is no time or age that anyone should “take” verbal abuse. Especially not from a parent, those people charged with setting the course of a life via values and morals. This is abuse, and justifying those words is inexcusable.
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When is the judicial system going to wake up and do its job? We now have a cafeteria style legal system, wherein the authorities can pick and choose which laws they are going to enforce. I am appalled by what I’ve seen transpire in Family Court. The “mothers” do not have to follow any of the Court’s orders and even worse, are not being held accountable for their bad behavior. Women are allowed to abuse the process by making false allegations, without a shred of evidence to support the allegation, knowing that all you have to do is breath the word “abusive” in the courtroom and dad’s rights to his children are immediately taken away. You are now guilty until proven innocent, but good luck with that once you’ve been stigmatized as “abusive”. It’s a downhill battle from there, as you’ve now been falsely accused of being something that you’re not, conveniently at the same time your marriage happened to fall apart. Who wouldn’t lose their temper? There should be question as to the credibility of these women who claim to be “victims” when all the while they are the ones victimizing the men. Women are using their children as pawns in order to gain the upper hand in divorce proceedings and it all revolves around money. A father is ORDERED to pay support, but allowed to see his children??? The judges spout off about the best interests of the children, but since when has alienating a child from a parent in a child’s best interest? Lets see how women would react if somebody alienated one of their children from them. When you constantly push somebody’s buttons, you will eventually get a reaction. Our system is in dire need of an overhaul!
I am the mother of a 15 year old son and know how unapprieciative a teen can be these days. For all those people who are judging Alec now; Who are you to judge until you have walked a mile in his shoes. I would also like to mention I have yet to meet the perfect parent that has handled every situation perfectly, we all regret something, some are just bigger than others. That is how we become better parents. Alec take time to be the smarter parent, breathe, think then act, not react.Remember in a shorter time than you realize you will be dealing with an adult let her realize what kind of mother she has. I was once a child stuck in the middle of one hurtful parent and one respectful parent and I realized on my own who was the manipulative one,so will she. I pray this situation clears itself up for you.
Satire was hilarious. How can anyone possibly justify what Baldwin just did - he should be permanently banned from seeing his child. Just because a kid is not around to talk with him on the phone at a prearranged time, he goes mental. Alec, get thee to a mental hospital quicker than you can say whacko.
When is the judicial system going to wake up and do its job?…The “mothers” do not have to follow any of the Court’s orders and even worse, are not being held accountable for their bad behavior. Women are allowed to abuse the process by making false allegations…Our system is in dire need of an overhaul!
It amazes me that you can hear that rant and automatically blame the mother for everything.
Go Alec! All that Kim has accomplished by leaking the tape is showing what a pain she is. When you listen to all the clues that this prearranged phone call was ignored and this is something they do to you constantly…not a one time thing…has made it obvious how Kim has tormented you and uses your daughter to do so. At 11 or 12 years old, it is the mother’s responsibility to see that her daughter keeps her appointment with you with minimal mishaps. Good Luck! Remember to always stand by your daughter…6 more years and she will be old enough to “see” the true pains of your tomenting that her mother has pushed upon you.
How can you possibly blame the court system for Alec’s behavior? Give me a fucking break. He needs to take responsibility for his actions. True, he is probably frusterated, but that is quite a step to take to say that the situation CAUSED him to call his daughter a little pig and that he is going to come “straighen her out.” I would venture to say that if he were in the habit of controling his behavior, he probably wouldn’t have the problems he has with his ex and daughter.
I don’t blame him. His ex is bad mouthing him to the child and the child doesn’t answer his calls. He has a right to a relationship. He said things he shouldn’t have but he is desperate to talk to his child. His ex Kim had nerve leaking that to the press. It was private. It just goes to prove what kind of woman she is. Children of divorce have a right to BOTH parents!
To Ireland: I hope that you and your father have made up by now. I am a father of a 23 yr. old daughter whom I raised from the age of 8. We have had much more vicious words than those that have been aired and we love and forgive each other for them. Yes, I’m sure this hurts and seems unforgiveable but I know that there have been times that you have thrown out hurtful words that you wish you could erase. If your dad apologizes, please forgive him. I am sure he was acting out of frustration and a feeling of rejection all based on the fact that he loves you and can be easily hurt by your actions. The message makes me think that there was an appointed time to talk with you and you weren’t available. I am pretty sure your dad got his feelings hurt and said those terrible things in anger. I would bet that he wishes he never said them whether others heard them or not.
To Alec: I know what it is like to have a terrible divorce. Without judging you or Kim I would like to say how badly I feel for you and your daughter. As I said above, You probably regretted saying those words and immediately thought of how you could have handled it better. As the saying goes, “been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Well having raised my daughter alone since she was 8 I have quite a few of those t-shirts. I hope you have reached out to your little lady and have tried to make amends. Then, dad, forgive yourself. Lastly, learn what I have learned….That when I feel that “certain way” there is no need to communicate with anybody. I have learned that my first reaction is not usually my best or wisest choice. Take some time to cool down and put your thoughts in order. I’m sure you already know this, but it bears repeating.
To the General Public: “Let those without sin, cast the first stone”"
WAY TO GO ALEC!!!!!
As a man who went through an identical situation of having my children alienated from me by their bad mouthing, lying and manipulative mother, I feel your pain. Because of these left wing passivists (Berkeley 101) we have allowed our courts to favor guess who -Mommy. My Ex-Wife had an openly public affair with my 3 daughters’ music teacher whom she is now married to and I financially support(They both teach at the same school that my daughters attended). She has been diagnosed with depression, was found guilty of alienation and manipulation by two court appointed therapists, failed to participate in the custody order, to include having the police called on three occassions because she failed to show up at the dropoff, refused to allow the children to speak with me when I telephoned at the court scheduled times, filed a false CPS report that was thrown out becuase it was a pack of lies and twice tried to have the D.A’s office come after me by filing false complaints of abuse (the investigating officer from the D.A.’s office stated openly to my attorney “She’s a Bitch”). Her mother (Be-zerkely Therapist) conspired with her to try and convince the courts that I was Bi-Polar and therefore an unfit parent. . . . Really do I need to go on because I’m just getting started here. You “Namby Pamby” “Touchy Feely” liberals are turning our kids into spoiled rotten disrepectful punks with no respect for parental guidance and authority. But then again you will be the first to cry out, “I just don’t know why Sunflower, still lives at home at age 33, while spending his days strumming the guiter, smoking dope on Telegraph Ave.” “I wonder if he’ll get his first job after the sex change?”
While Alec could have stayed away from the name calling I agree, it is difficult for any of us to judge him.
Until the courts step in and stop this “Cafeteria plan” as Diane describes, the “Man haters” playbook will conitnue to payout large sums of money to gold digging women, and fuel the fire to break-up parent-child relationships because one parent plays dirty to the support of the courts.
A hero????…..someone who screams abuse at a 11/12 yr old - whom he claims to love???? FFS there is no excuse for calling yr own child the filthy names that he did. God, you Americans make for great entertainment.
Alec is a huge ASS. Then there are all the other ASSES who are laying the blame at the feet of his ex-wife Kim. I am pretty sure that this message he left for his daughter pales in comparison to the verbal and emotional abuse Kim must have endured during their marriage. Do I feel the least bit sorry for him? HELL no. I hope the judge strips him of all his parental rights. Then he will no longer have to worry about his daughter not being available to him at the “appointed” time. Alec Baldwin is a digusting, arrogant, obnoxious PIG. He was “pushed” into saying these cruel things to a child? Give me a break. The blame lies at his own two feet.
They need to IMUS this guys ass!
kim b in an interview stated i love being a mother well i have news for you lady alec would probably love being a father if you would let him i am on alecs side he wants a relationship and is rejected due to kims brainwashing of the kids mind against dAd he has a right to blow up i would too i am sick of women not knowing how desperately dads want to love and be in their childs life kim b taught her daughter to ignore her dad and push him ou shame on kim b she is a selfish pig mother
diane you are soooooooooo right you are brilliant and your comment needs to be printed on the front news headlines
hey manon are you stupid ??? he called her a PIG. Bet he is a violent wife beater.
there is no excuse for his call and ensuing verbage. He almost could get arrested for that call.
You people that are defending him are wrong. Very wrong. Are you saying that call wwas OK? His follow up gives more clues to how awful he is. BTW, I am a male.
Maybe Ireland Baldwin is a thoughtless little pig who should pick up her phone. I can’t believe how hot Kim still is, damn I’d fuck her stupid.
ireland i like your dads style i grew up not knowing my father well at all he was always busy and never called me he never disiplined me ever i felt he never cared i think your dad is cool and loves you very much you hurt him by ignoring all his calls my dad used to do that to me you are lucky to have someone with that kind of passion for your respect and disipline i envy that
The real issue here is whether or not Kim would let me do her in the anus…everything else here is background noise.
Lmao, Woody. You’re sick, sick man.
woody, your a pig…. i’m sorry, you made me say that … you and your mother and this damn legal system.
Okay people, let’s gain some perspective here. Messy divorce? Check. Custody battle? Check. Screaming hysterical abuse at a 11 year old child. BIG FUCKING CHECK! Alec Baldwin has a history of violence not only with his family but with total strangers and co-workers. How can anyone think this was a one-time overemotional mistake? Anyone who defends this prick has obviously never been raised in an abusive household, afraid everytime a door opens what kind of monster will be on the other side. This has nothing to do with women versus men in a court system, this has to do with a man who needs some serious mental help. I have no doubt that this little snippet from the lives of Kim and Ireland was only the tip of a monstrous iceburg. You could tell by the way he started off irritated and quickly whiiped himself into an abusive frenzy, not caring that he was leaving a message for an 11 year old child. A fact I’m sure that Kim has brought up to him in previous instances of abuse because he references it “I don’t care if your 11 or 12!!” Damn, the bastard can’t even remember his daughter is 11. Maybe Ireland doesn’t answer her phone or treat him with respect because she doesn’t want to talk to him and she has no respect for him. Can’t say that I blame her. Maybe Ireland has seen her father metally, and probably physically, abuse her mother. Kim doesn’t have to brainwash Ireland, Alec has done a BANG-UP job of that. And by the way, most domestic abusers are VERY skilled at hiding their true personas from the public and friends. It was probably extremely theraputic for Kim to let the world know what a frothing-at-the-mouth jack-ass he really is. BRAVO Kim, I hope he never sees Ireland again. That’s a father that she would be better off not having at all. No matter how angry someone is, they have no right to speak to someone (espcially a kid still developing their own sense of self-worth) the way he did. And to Ireland I say, resist the urge (when you get into your 20’s) to stick a knife in his gut and twist it slowly. Instead forget the guy ever existed, that’s the best revenge. Oh but not before you write your tell-all book.
My 11 yr old would have been a basket case after a call like that. Sounds like Alec’s parents never taught him what I tell my son all the time. You can’t control what other people do, but you can and will control what you do. Other people cannot make you get in trouble. Nothing another person does can justify you doing something wrong. If you get in trouble for responding to something it’s your fault because *you* are control of you. As for going off on the kid. Way to make her want to pick up the phone next time.
Love all the bitter people just applying someone else’s situation to their own experience and twisting it. The fact is he flipped the hell out on a little kid. That’s never okay. Even if she is a selfish little pig, he’s the grown up. It’s his job to teach her how to act. And most of the rant was about how humiliated (Humiliated?) he was that she didn’t answer the phone. Psycho.
We all have stories of divorced people hurting each other through the kids. Plenty of people here talking about how it’s great to abuse a child because the woman has custody. I know a kid whose father makes her eat foods that could kill her just before dropping her off to mom because it gives her a horrible stomach ache and mom will have to deal with it. The courts say it’s not abuse to feed them things they’re allergic to, even if it’s a deadly allergy and even if you know it will cause them pain.
Every parent loves their kid and every kid loves their parent, but sometimes people are too into themselves to think about what they’re doing to their children. They go about their lives the same as they always have (being violent or abuse, driving drunk, etc) and never realize that kids think their parents are right. When you’re 11, if your dad says you’re a pig, you must be a pig.
It doesn’t matter what the ex, or the courts, or even the kid did to him. He is wrong here.
RH is right, things like this, especially with a sensitive kid, can be traumatizing. I would have been an emotional wreck, completely beside myself if my dad ever came close to saying the same things to me. That’s a great way to convince the court you should be the primary care-taker of your child by the way.
And Especially if he’s trying to combat his wife distancing him from his children, there is absolutely nothing someone can do to convince you that your mother or father is a bad person more than their own actions will. His screaming “you selfish little pig” probably won’t pierce her heart with the thought “my Dad cares about me”. On the other hand, if he were a good father, the mother’s efforts would only alienate HER from her daughter.
Whatever your issues are, there’s no substitute for having a positive conception of Both parents, and Especially a father. How many girls are screwed up today because they’ve learned to take abusive from their Dads? or because they’ve come to hate him? I doubt so many of you would applaud him if he wanted her future Boyfriend/spouse to treat her that way, but that’s exactly what he’s teaching her.
This is beyond a messy divorce. I think this issue goes across all color lines and is a breakdown in the family court system. It has been known for years that this is not a fair system to fathers who obey the law.
I am so proud of Mr. Baldwins courage to explain the full story. There are so many GOOD FATHERS in America who do the right thing, obey the courts and the unfair one sided judgements for support. then the mothers do what they want with no reprecutions.
Many Fathers do not have the public voice nor the rights when you step into the court system. I appluade him for making this public and maybe there might be some change to the unfair system.
Mr. Baldwin is about as courageous as anyone would be when their six and seven figure income depends on the marketability of a likable image. Because the image of an unlikable man who yells at little girls, i.e., abuses them with his temper tantrums, can’t fool all of his fans all of the time. Only some of them who will stand by him because he is a “good actor” and because they’ve drooled over him for a long time and can’t believe they’ve wasted all that drool on a man who screeches at his own kid. After all, it’s all those annoying people in his life that *make him* act that way. Celebs…they continue to act better than us because fans treat them like they are better and cooler and nicer and neater. Illusions die hard.